The Deciding Factor for Whether an Out-of-Network Patient Books
Did you know that only about half of callers end up on the schedule?

Out of network, the four seconds after a caller asks “do you take my insurance?” decide whether they book. “No” plus an apology loses them. “No, but” — backed by a membership plan your team offers with conviction — turns it into a conversation about care. The plan isn’t mainly a revenue stream; it’s a sentence your front desk can say with confidence, and it only works if the team believes it.
A patient calls. They have found you somehow, they like the look of the practice, and they open with the only question they know how to ask.
Do you take my insurance?
When you were in network, that was an easy call. Yes, and they are a patient. The person at the desk did not have to be persuasive, or knowledgeable, or particularly interested. They had to be accurate.
Out of network, the answer is no, and what happens in the next four seconds is what makes or breaks your new patient numbers. In most practices, what happens is this: the person apologizes, offers to file out-of-network benefits, and reads the silence on the other end as disappointment. The patient says they’ll call back, and they don’t.
That’s not a training failure. It is a supply problem. There is nothing true and useful for that person to say, so they say the true and useless thing.
What we recommend
Across dozens of these conversations, the recommendation is consistent and it’s not a script. It is a structural fix:
“You have to level up how you answer the phone. You can’t just be a yes-or-no order-taker person on the phone. I would highly recommend any practice going into that transition put in place some type of membership plan, something that lets you say “no, but” to the insurance question, and make the call not about insurance but about the quality of care and they can help make the treatment affordable for the patient.”
Andre Santos, Co-Founder of Pain-Free Dental Marketing
The plan is not primarily a revenue product. It’s a sentence. It converts the most common objection in your day from a dead end into a conversation about what care at your practice is actually like, which is the conversation you need to be having, and the one you cannot have while the patient is still waiting to hear about their benefits.
The objection your team will raise
Practices often resist this, and the resistance usually comes from the team rather than the owner. The reasoning is straightforward: you are discounting, so a membership patient must be worth less than a full-fee patient.
“I’ve heard this concern before, and I’ve done an analysis before where the team was concerned that between the fees and the write-off, the membership plan patients were basically bad patients. What it came down to was that the people who bought the membership plan ultimately were worth more to the practice, because they did more treatment.”
Andre Santos, Co-Founder of Pain-Free Dental Marketing
Two mechanisms explain it, and neither is about the membership fee.
There is no annual maximum. An insured patient is managing a ceiling (typically around $1,500) and will often defer treatment to stay under it or split it across benefit years. A membership patient has no ceiling to manage. The discount is not the incentive, it’s just the absence of a limit is.
The hygiene is prepaid, so they turn up. Most plans bundle two hygiene visits into the fee. People don’t like leaving things they’ve already paid for on the table, so they come back on schedule. You see them more often, which means you diagnose more often. Production then follows from being in the chair, not from the plan.
What these plans actually cost
From the practices we have looked at, two structures dominate.
| Annual, in-house. | Monthly, managed. |
| ~$400–450/yr 2x hygiene visits10% off treatment | ~$25/mo~20% off treatment Billing and retention handled |
One practice we spoke with was charging $300 a year with a free cleaning and 20% off everything else. That is materially below the norm on price and above it on discount. Our advice was not to raise it, but we did share that if we were in their shoes, we would acknowledge that the plan was not curated to “get rich”, but to make care accessible to more people.
A generous plan that nobody hears about is worse than an average plan the team believes in. Which brings us to the part that actually determines whether any of this works.
It only works if the team sells it
Even if you back out the discount and you add back in the membership fee, they are very productive, but only when the team talks about it positively. Instead of always asking people about their insurance, they lean people towards “Hey, we have this really great plan. It comes with the two cleanings, and if you get any work done it basically pays for the plan. Our patients love it.” They have to hype it up.
It’s important to note what’s doing the work there. Not the price. The phrase our patients love it. It’s social proof, offered unprompted, by somebody who sounds like they mean it. A patient deciding whether to pay out of pocket is looking for evidence that other people like them made the same decision and were glad. Your front desk is the first and cheapest place to give them that.
The mistake to avoid
Here’s where most practices overcorrect. They decide the plan is the answer, and the plan becomes the opening.
When one practice owner described his intention to introduce the plan on the first call to anyone without insurance, the caution was immediate. The primary goal of that first call is building rapport. The plan is a secondary talking point, not the pitch.
This reason is worth understanding, because a patient who has just been told no and is immediately offered a paid alternative hears a sales process. A patient who is asked about what is going on with their teeth, who gets a warm and specific answer, and who then hears there is an affordable way to get started, hears a practice trying to help.
Same information, different order, materially different outcome.
How would you know whether any of this is happening?
We record and review inbound new-patient calls. When somebody calls and asks whether you take Delta, we can tell you whether the dental plan you offer came up, where in the call it came up, and how the person on your end sounded when they said it.
We’ll work with your coach to share call recordings that we have of a patient calling about ‘do you take Delta.’ That should be a cue for us to be bringing up the membership plan and how, if you’re planning on doing any work, the discount pays for the plan, and you just know you’re going to get good quality and we’re not letting insurance dictate your care.
What it looks like when it’s working
The practices doing this well don’t sound like they are selling anything. The insurance question comes, the answer is no, and the conversation keeps moving, because the person answering has somewhere to take it and believes what they are saying.
The marketing does not change, the budget does not change, and more of the people who were already calling end up in the chair. That is the cheapest growth available to a practice leaving insurance, and it is sitting in four seconds you have probably never listened to.
Is your front desk ready?
If you’re going out of network without a membership plan, you’re asking your front desk to win an argument with no material. Get the plan built by someone who builds plans. Get the team trained by someone who trains teams. Then find out whether it is being said. That’s the part we can help with, and it’s usually the part nobody has checked
Frequently asked questions
How should an out-of-network practice answer “do you take my insurance?”
Don’t stop at “no.” Move to “no, but” – acknowledge you’re out of network, then pivot to how care works and how a membership plan makes it affordable. The goal of that first call is rapport, not a pitch, so lead with the patient’s teeth and raise the plan second.
Is a dental membership plan worth it for the practice?
Yes, and not mainly for the fee. Membership patients tend to be worth more because there’s no annual maximum capping treatment, and prepaid hygiene brings them in on schedule, so you diagnose more. In analyses we’ve run they’re often worth roughly double an insurance or cash patient.
What should a dental membership plan cost?
Two structures dominate: an in-house annual plan around $400-450 covering two hygiene visits with about 10% off treatment, or a managed monthly plan near $25/month with a larger (around 20%) discount and billing handled for you. A generous plan nobody hears about is worse than an average one the team believes in.
Why do membership plans fail to work?
Because they sit unmentioned on the website. The plan only works when the team raises it with conviction – “we have this great plan, it comes with two cleanings, and any treatment basically pays for it; our patients love it.” That unprompted social proof, not the price, is what converts the call.